Merry Christmas

Our Relationship

I still remember the day when I had asked you “what relationship means”?

You looked into my eyes and flashed back your brilliant smile...…….and said “you and I are together; we understand each other; we care for each other”………that’s what a relationship is. I looked at you, into those deep eyes and believed….believed in your relationship…….in our relationship.

But now when you are no longer with me, I still want to ask you “what relationship means”. We still understand each other, we still care for each other, it’s just that we are no longer together………does that mean we don’t share a relationship?

Be Positive :)

Keep your thoughts positive because your thoughts become your words. Keep your words positive because your words become your behaviors. Keep your behaviors positive because your behaviors become your habits. Keep your habits positive because your habits become your values. Keep your values positive because your values become your destiny.~ Mahatama Gandhi 

Quotes Of The Day- Happiness

"The happiness which we receive from ourselves is greater than that which we obtain from our surroundings. . . . The world in which a person lives shapes itself chiefly by the way in which he or she looks at it."
Arthur Schopenhauer

Think Beyond Cricket

Its true,India has very little respect for any other sports than cricket. I feel it is all because of the media and the political support it gets due to the fact that cricket earns more cash than any other sports in the current Indian sports scenario. But if someone wants to really push other games to the forefront, it needs only a fraction of the money earned by cricket. so to think of this situation, why is the sports association not diverting its cash flow from cricket to other sports and give some support to other players.

Always it s combined effort on the world stage that matters when it comes to Olympics or CWG or any thing that represents the country.

In this CWG 2010 Delhi our sports man ranked 2nd amongst all the 72 participating countries. India's National Games is Hockey. Hockey federation is in Financial Crunch, they are not able to provide Players to a good infrastructure and other facility.Unfortunately a few corporate sponsors like Tata, Jindal, Mahindra etc., are concentrating only on the upper crest of some of the games.

It is high time that sports organizations are managed by experienced sports persons only with real life experience and government plays only the role of a facilitator.This will bring glory to the nation as we have enough talent in this country .

In order to revive the sport arena of our country, professionalism should be placed first on priority. Politics, religion, caste, class or language should not be the yardstick of measurement for selecting the organizers or the athletes. The government should bring in professionals to head these bodies.

The media should leave behind its bias of glorifying cricket and marginalizing other sports events. It should give due importance to the stars like Abhinav Bindra, Gagan Narang, Saina Nehwal and others, which will encourage the future generations to follow the path of these real stars.

It is high time that we should focus on the basic forms of sport - athletics, gymnastics and swimming - the building blocks of all sport. Organizers should direct their focus on winning medals rather than participating in many events. Efforts should be taken to keep the spirit alive in individual events such as chess, shooting, tennis, boxing, billiards etc where Indian players are exceptionally well at. The Sports Authority of India should take a lead in promoting the various sports events so that the lost glory returns to many of our games that they had before. 

Bhaagvad Gita - Lord Krishna

Be fearless and pure; never waver in your determination or your dedication to the spiritual life. Give freely. Be self-controlled, sincere, truthful, loving, and full of the desire to serve…Learn to be detached and to take joy in renunciation. Do not get angry or harm any living creature, but be compassionate and gentle; show good will to all. Cultivate vigor, patience, will, purity; avoid malice and pride. Then, you will achieve your destiny.

Quotes Of The Day ~ Happiness

Everything is material for the seed of happiness, if you look into it with inquisitiveness and curiosity. The future is completely open, and we are writing it moment to moment. There always is the potential to create an environment of blame -- or one that is conducive to loving-kindness.~ Pema Chodron

Quotes of The Day 4

"Love comes when manipulation stops; when you think more about the other person than about his or her reactions to you. When you dare to reveal yourself fully. When you dare to be vulnerable.”~ Dr Joyce

Quotes Of The Day 3

"All of us are born for a reason, but all of us don't discover why. Success in life has nothing to do with what you gain in life or accomplish for yourself. It's what you do for others." -- Danny Thomas

Why Kashmir is Burning?

Who thought when Pt.Nehru was taking Kashmir Issue to UNO for Peace Will become the combustive reason For South East Asia.(India, Pakistan & China).

Nehru was a Kashmiri and he thought he was better suited to handle the Kashmir issue. He thus took the ill fated step of dealing with this problem himself and did not allow Patel the home minister to have anything to do with it. 

Nehru & Kashmir:-

 

Nehru always was in his own dreams throughout. He thought that India did not need an army as there is no way India will go to wars. India is a peace loving country.Same way he thought that if he was sincere and took every issue to the UN, respect for India will increase. He was never a shrewd person that politics demanded.

 

Also he trusted his friend Sheikh Abdulla. Sheikh Abdulla commanded great following among Kashmiri Muslims those days. Based on the trust, Nehru promised plebiscite in the UN. But within no time Sheikh changed his word and started dreaming a separate Kashmir. Nehru then jailed Sheikh Abdulla and refused to hold a plebiscite in 1953 within 5 years of proposing the same.

Raja Hari Singh & Kashmir:-

Nehru allowed Sardar Patel to have control of annexing all the other princely states except Kashmir saying that Kashmir being his native place, he knows better on how to deal with it. Sardar achieved success everywhere and many people believe that this deviation has put India in trouble.

 

Also in local Kashmiri politics, Nehru always sided with Sheikh Abdulla and never liked Raja Hari Singh. The Raja felt insecure to be part of India led by Jawaharlal Nehru. He worried that once the instrument of accession is signed he will be put behind bars by Nehru and Sheikh.Everybody Knows that Maharaja Hari Singh signed the Accession paper on October 26, 1947 under which the state acceded ti India.

The world has shrunk and a regional conflict can engulf the whole world, especially because India and Pakistan are both nuclear powers. Therefore, the world community should not ignore the plight of the Kashmiris, who are writing their tales of woe in blood. It should come forward and stop the injustice meted out to them at the hands of the Indians. Dr. Martin Luther King very aptly remarked: “The ultimate tragedy is not the oppression and cruelty by the bad people, but the silence over that by the good people”.

 

Human Rights Violation in Kashmir  (From January, 1989 To August, 2010)

Total Killings                           1,01,776

Custodial Killings                      10,817

Civilians Arrested                     1,50,269

 Property Destroyed                 1,75,143

 Women Widowed                      32,371

                                                Children Orphaned                    186,616

                                                Women Molested                      15,637 (Statistics Published in Human Rights Magazine/Journals/Articles) 

Total Population of Kashmir is 80 laks.(Above)

Conclusion:- Kashmis Issue will be solved by Kashmiri only and by the formation of good governance.