Merry Christmas

Our Relationship

I still remember the day when I had asked you “what relationship means”?

You looked into my eyes and flashed back your brilliant smile...…….and said “you and I are together; we understand each other; we care for each other”………that’s what a relationship is. I looked at you, into those deep eyes and believed….believed in your relationship…….in our relationship.

But now when you are no longer with me, I still want to ask you “what relationship means”. We still understand each other, we still care for each other, it’s just that we are no longer together………does that mean we don’t share a relationship?

Be Positive :)

Keep your thoughts positive because your thoughts become your words. Keep your words positive because your words become your behaviors. Keep your behaviors positive because your behaviors become your habits. Keep your habits positive because your habits become your values. Keep your values positive because your values become your destiny.~ Mahatama Gandhi 

Quotes Of The Day- Happiness

"The happiness which we receive from ourselves is greater than that which we obtain from our surroundings. . . . The world in which a person lives shapes itself chiefly by the way in which he or she looks at it."
Arthur Schopenhauer

Think Beyond Cricket

Its true,India has very little respect for any other sports than cricket. I feel it is all because of the media and the political support it gets due to the fact that cricket earns more cash than any other sports in the current Indian sports scenario. But if someone wants to really push other games to the forefront, it needs only a fraction of the money earned by cricket. so to think of this situation, why is the sports association not diverting its cash flow from cricket to other sports and give some support to other players.

Always it s combined effort on the world stage that matters when it comes to Olympics or CWG or any thing that represents the country.

In this CWG 2010 Delhi our sports man ranked 2nd amongst all the 72 participating countries. India's National Games is Hockey. Hockey federation is in Financial Crunch, they are not able to provide Players to a good infrastructure and other facility.Unfortunately a few corporate sponsors like Tata, Jindal, Mahindra etc., are concentrating only on the upper crest of some of the games.

It is high time that sports organizations are managed by experienced sports persons only with real life experience and government plays only the role of a facilitator.This will bring glory to the nation as we have enough talent in this country .

In order to revive the sport arena of our country, professionalism should be placed first on priority. Politics, religion, caste, class or language should not be the yardstick of measurement for selecting the organizers or the athletes. The government should bring in professionals to head these bodies.

The media should leave behind its bias of glorifying cricket and marginalizing other sports events. It should give due importance to the stars like Abhinav Bindra, Gagan Narang, Saina Nehwal and others, which will encourage the future generations to follow the path of these real stars.

It is high time that we should focus on the basic forms of sport - athletics, gymnastics and swimming - the building blocks of all sport. Organizers should direct their focus on winning medals rather than participating in many events. Efforts should be taken to keep the spirit alive in individual events such as chess, shooting, tennis, boxing, billiards etc where Indian players are exceptionally well at. The Sports Authority of India should take a lead in promoting the various sports events so that the lost glory returns to many of our games that they had before. 

Bhaagvad Gita - Lord Krishna

Be fearless and pure; never waver in your determination or your dedication to the spiritual life. Give freely. Be self-controlled, sincere, truthful, loving, and full of the desire to serve…Learn to be detached and to take joy in renunciation. Do not get angry or harm any living creature, but be compassionate and gentle; show good will to all. Cultivate vigor, patience, will, purity; avoid malice and pride. Then, you will achieve your destiny.

Quotes Of The Day ~ Happiness

Everything is material for the seed of happiness, if you look into it with inquisitiveness and curiosity. The future is completely open, and we are writing it moment to moment. There always is the potential to create an environment of blame -- or one that is conducive to loving-kindness.~ Pema Chodron

Quotes of The Day 4

"Love comes when manipulation stops; when you think more about the other person than about his or her reactions to you. When you dare to reveal yourself fully. When you dare to be vulnerable.”~ Dr Joyce

Quotes Of The Day 3

"All of us are born for a reason, but all of us don't discover why. Success in life has nothing to do with what you gain in life or accomplish for yourself. It's what you do for others." -- Danny Thomas

Why Kashmir is Burning?

Who thought when Pt.Nehru was taking Kashmir Issue to UNO for Peace Will become the combustive reason For South East Asia.(India, Pakistan & China).

Nehru was a Kashmiri and he thought he was better suited to handle the Kashmir issue. He thus took the ill fated step of dealing with this problem himself and did not allow Patel the home minister to have anything to do with it. 

Nehru & Kashmir:-

 

Nehru always was in his own dreams throughout. He thought that India did not need an army as there is no way India will go to wars. India is a peace loving country.Same way he thought that if he was sincere and took every issue to the UN, respect for India will increase. He was never a shrewd person that politics demanded.

 

Also he trusted his friend Sheikh Abdulla. Sheikh Abdulla commanded great following among Kashmiri Muslims those days. Based on the trust, Nehru promised plebiscite in the UN. But within no time Sheikh changed his word and started dreaming a separate Kashmir. Nehru then jailed Sheikh Abdulla and refused to hold a plebiscite in 1953 within 5 years of proposing the same.

Raja Hari Singh & Kashmir:-

Nehru allowed Sardar Patel to have control of annexing all the other princely states except Kashmir saying that Kashmir being his native place, he knows better on how to deal with it. Sardar achieved success everywhere and many people believe that this deviation has put India in trouble.

 

Also in local Kashmiri politics, Nehru always sided with Sheikh Abdulla and never liked Raja Hari Singh. The Raja felt insecure to be part of India led by Jawaharlal Nehru. He worried that once the instrument of accession is signed he will be put behind bars by Nehru and Sheikh.Everybody Knows that Maharaja Hari Singh signed the Accession paper on October 26, 1947 under which the state acceded ti India.

The world has shrunk and a regional conflict can engulf the whole world, especially because India and Pakistan are both nuclear powers. Therefore, the world community should not ignore the plight of the Kashmiris, who are writing their tales of woe in blood. It should come forward and stop the injustice meted out to them at the hands of the Indians. Dr. Martin Luther King very aptly remarked: “The ultimate tragedy is not the oppression and cruelty by the bad people, but the silence over that by the good people”.

 

Human Rights Violation in Kashmir  (From January, 1989 To August, 2010)

Total Killings                           1,01,776

Custodial Killings                      10,817

Civilians Arrested                     1,50,269

 Property Destroyed                 1,75,143

 Women Widowed                      32,371

                                                Children Orphaned                    186,616

                                                Women Molested                      15,637 (Statistics Published in Human Rights Magazine/Journals/Articles) 

Total Population of Kashmir is 80 laks.(Above)

Conclusion:- Kashmis Issue will be solved by Kashmiri only and by the formation of good governance.

Quotes Of The Day 2

In the game of life it's a good idea to have a few early losses, which relieves you of the pressure of trying to maintain an undefeated season.

~Bill Baughan

Happy Teachers Day

Thank you, my teacher, for being there,At times when skies were gray

Thank you, my teacher, for lending an ear
When I had things to say
You showered love on me lavishly
When no one seemed to care
You brought me joys untold
To fill my heart with moments of gold
I would have felt isolated and lonely
If you had not been there
I lack the words to let you know
How much you mean to me,
But I will profusely thank God for you,Until the Eternity.


This Poem is dedicated to My Mom (My Sweet Mother) and all the teacher who teaches me School to my professional courses.My Mother is Also a Teacher.

Quotes of The Day 1

There is only one success - to be able to spend your life in your own way. - Christopher Morley, 1890-1957

One Year of Corporate Experience.

I joined Mearsk Global Service Centre India Pvt Ltd, Back Office of A P Moller Maersk Group. 

The A.P. Moller - Maersk Group is a worldwide conglomerate. Maersk operate in some 130 countries and have a workforce of some 115,000 employees. In addition to owning one of the world’s largest shipping companies, we’re involved in a wide range of activities in the energy, logistics, retail and manufacturing industries.With a fleet numbering more than 630 container vessels and more than 2,100,000 containers, with reliable and comprehensive worldwide coverage.

Our Group was founded by Arnold Peter Møller in 1904. Following Arnold Peter Møller’s death in 1965, his son, Mærsk Mc-Kinney Møller, assumed leadership of the group, which – thanks to initiative, foresight and enterprise – has grown into a major international business.

I have joined Maersk Last year in August 2009, I have completed one year in this organization.This is my 1st Corporate Job experience after completion of my PGDM-Finance Degree.

I have gain too much professional Knowledge here. I would like to thanks to my colleague and my senior those who help me a lot. 

Happy Independence Day

Happy Friendship Day

I Hate.. But Love You

I hate the way you make me feel,
I hate that you can read my mind,
And that you’re always right.
I hate the way you make me smile,
even when I wanna cry.
I hate your thoughts that haunt me.

I hate the way you pass by me,
and not even talk.
I hate the way you left me hurt,
And now that you don’t even care.
I hate that I can’t be angry,
I hate crying over you.

I hate it when you lie,
I hate the fact that I fell for you,
And that I’ll never get over you.
I hate that I don’t hate you,
not even a bit,
not even at all.

I hate so many things,
But the thing I hate the most is,
I hate myself for NOT hating you!

©Apurv

I have written this poem after watching  Hollywood Movie "10 things I hate about you" 

5 Question Women Ask

Generally when a girl coming in a relationship they ask some Question from a guy to whom she is going to be in Relationship.
 
The five questions Which Woman's Generally ask to a guy ,are:
1 - "What are you thinking?"
2 - "Do you love me?"
3 - "Do I look fat?"
4 - "Do you think she is prettier than me?"
5 - "What would you do if I died?"

Think twice than answer properly...,If you Give Smart Answer than You will Win her Heart.

Leaders of the fee world

How much a country's leader is paid compared to GDP per person

ON MONDAY July 5th Raila Odinga, Kenya's prime minister, rejected the pay increase he was awarded by the country's parliament last week. MPs had granted Mr Odinga a rise to nearly $430,000 a year, while giving themselves a 25% increase to $161,000. This boost would place Mr Odinga among the highest-paid political leaders in the world. More worryingly, his salary would be some 240 times greater than the country's GDP per person (measured on a purchasing-power parity basis). Lee Hsien Loong, the prime minister of Singapore, tops our list of selected leaders' salaries. He is paid more than 40 times the city-state’s GDP per person. At the other end of the scale, Manmohan Singh, the prime minister of India, reaffirms his reputation for saintliness by taking a modest sum from Indian taxpayers.

Correction: We originally understated the salary of the prime minister of Canada. This was revised on July 6th 2010.
Sources:- The Economist

150 years of Indian Railway

Indian Railway:- Believe in closeness

World Environment Day 2010

Every year world celebrates World Environment Day on 5th of June.World Environment Day (WED) is one of the principal vehicles through which the United Nations stimulates worldwide awareness of the environment and enhances political attention and action.
The agenda is to give a human face to environmental issues; empower people to become active agents of sustainable and equitable development; promote an understanding that communities are pivotal to changing attitudes towards environmental issues; and advocate partnership which will ensure all nations and peoples enjoy a safer and more prosperous future.

2010 Theme:-
Many Species. One Planet. One Future. 

The year 2010 has been designated the International Year of Biodiversity by the U.N., with the theme “Biodiversity is Life - Biodiversity is Our Life”.

U.N.E.P. etimates that the world contains between 5 million and 100 million species. Scientists have thus far identified only about 2 million species. Of these, 17,291 species are known to be threatened with extinction -- primarily because of human activity, such as clearing of forests, draining of wetlands, over-fishing, and emissions of heat-trapping gasses that cause warming of the Earth.
A/C to UNEP “A world without biodiversity is a very bleak prospect. Millions of people and millions of species all share the same planet, and only together can we enjoy a safer and more prosperous future,”

Please use these methods in your day to day life to save the Environment.
1. Reduce my power consumption by turning off the lights when they are not being used.
2. Install a water efficient shower head.
3. Turn off computers when not in use.
4. Reduce my petrol/diesel consumption by traveling by public transport or by walking.
5. Set my washing machine to wash clothes in cold water.
6. Increase my re-use and recycling, refusing to buy packaging.
7. Take re-useable shopping bags to the supermarket.
8. Investigate ways to off-set my carbon footprint.
9. Switch to “green power.
10.Switch off a light and see if you can still work comfortably. Most of the times we have too many lights on in our offices and home.

Poem.... Love In.

मेरे वजूद में वफ़ा की रौशनी उतार दे,
फिर इतना प्यार दे की मुझे चाहतों में मार दे,
बहुत उदास था उठ कर तेरे पास आगया,
कुछ ऐसी बात कर जो दिल को चैन दे करार दे,
सुना है तरेरी एक नजर सवारती है जिंदगी,
जो हो सके तो आज मेरी जिंदगी संवार दे,

Women's Reservation Bill

"या देवी सर्व भूतेषु शक्ति रूपेण संस्मृता....नमस्तस्यै नमस्तस्यै नमस्तस्यै नमो नमः"
This is New step taken by Congress Government (UPA) to Empower Indian Woman's through giving her 30% reservation in Indian Parliament House.Woman's Reservation Bill is most awaited Bill its takes around 14 year in discussion and finally The Bill is Passed in Parliament.
But only giving her chance to enter in Politics can women will Empowered?
Statics:-
Currently There are 59 women lawmakers in the lower house of parliament at present, out of a maximum of 545.
545* 0.33% =181 Total MP In Parliament
545* 0.50% == 274 Seats for Ruling Party
274- 181 == 93 seats only for Ruling Party
545- 181 == 367 Seats for all including (Man & Women)

Current Scenario in our Society:-
On daily basis if we count In rural & Urban area around more than 1000 women s are harnessed by Male, 100 are raped, 50 women suicide themselves due to Dowry.
Than how can we say after this Reservation bill the women will empowered. 

Mission 200 Successfull

One-day international cricket, since its 1971 inception, had to wait nearly four decades to see a batsman score 200. The previous best mark was shared by Zimbabwean Charles Coventry (194 not out against Bangladesh in 2009) and Pakistan’s Saeed Anwar (194 against India in 1997).

Sachin Ramesh Tendulkar is an Indian cricketer widely regarded as one of the greatest batsmen in the history of cricket. He is the leading run-scorer and century maker in Test and One Day International cricket.

Happy Makarsankranti

Are You Happy?

Really Nice one!!!
If You Wana Happy Follow This Rules.

Top 10 Reasons Not to Eat Meat

Since there's never been a better time to go vegetarian, we thought we'd let you in on our Top 10 Reasons Not to Eat Meat. They speak for themselves, so without further ado, here they are.

1. Help the Poor
While there is ample reason for indignation at the 100 million tons of grain used for biofuels, more than seven times as much grain (760 million tons) is fed to farmed animals so that people can eat meat.

2. Stop Cruelty to Animals
On today's factory farms, animals are crammed by the thousands into filthy windowless sheds, wire cages, gestation crates and other confinement systems. These animals will never raise families, root in the soil, build nests or do anything that is natural and important to them.

3. Save the Environment
A recent United Nations report entitled Livestock's Long Shadow concludes that eating meat is "one of the top two or three most significant contributors to the most serious environmental problems, at every scale from local to global". The report finds that eating meat causes almost 40 per cent more greenhouse-gas emissions than all the cars, trucks, ships and planes in the world combined.

4. Avoid Bird Flu
The World Health Organisation says that if the avian flu virus mutates, it could be caught simply by eating undercooked chicken flesh or eggs, eating food prepared on the same cutting board as infected meat or eggs, or even touching eggshells contaminated with the virus.

5. Prolong Your Life
Vegetarians live six to 10 years longer on average than meat-eaters do. Healthy vegetarian diets support a lifetime of good health and provide protection against numerous diseases and the three biggest killers – heart disease, cancer and strokes.

6. Avoid the World's Number One Killer
The risk of developing heart disease among meat-eaters is 50 per cent higher than it is among vegetarians. Drs Dean Ornish and Caldwell Esselstyn have used a vegan diet to prevent and reverse heart disease. Dr Esselstyn's book documents their 100 per cent success with unclogging people's arteries and reversing heart disease.

7. Reduce Your Risk of Cancer
According to the Physicians Committee for Responsible Medicine, "Vegetarians are about 40 percent less likely to get cancer than non-vegetarians, regardless of other risks such as smoking, body size, and socioeconomic status".

8. Fit Into a Bikini
Vegetarianism is the ultimate weight-loss diet. About 31 per cent of urban Indians are either overweight or obese, but only 2 per cent of vegans are obese. A vegetarian diet is the only diet that has passed peer review and taken weight off and kept it off.

9. Create Global Peace
Leo Tolstoy claimed that "vegetarianism is the taproot of humanitarianism". His point? If we want to sow the seeds of peace, we need to eat a peaceful diet. Eating meat supports killing animals just to satisfy humans' acquired taste for flesh.

10. Discover the Joy of Veggies
Vegetarians report that when they adopt a vegetarian diet, their range of foods explodes from a limited selection of centre-of-the-plate meat items to a wide range of grains, legumes, fruits and vegetables that they didn't even know existed.

Sir Paul McCartney sums it all up, "If anyone wants to save the planet, all they have to do is just stop eating meat. That's the single most important thing you could do. It's staggering when you think about it. Vegetarianism takes care of so many things in one shot: ecology, famine, cruelty".

No matter what reason you choose, you can start the exciting journey towards a vegetarian lifestyle simply by taking the "Pledge to Be Veg" today!


Pledge to be Veg

I want to eat better, feel better, and stop supporting cruelty to chickens, pigs, cows, fish and other animals killed for food. By signing my name, I pledge to explore vegetarianism for at least 30 days.

Happy New Year 2010

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